H.264: Default flags and pulling in openh264 and ffmpeg.

Defining use_third_party_h264 directly, and indirectly defining use_openh264 (from third_party/openh264) and ffmpeg_branding (from third_party/ffmpeg).
These will be used in a follow-up CL that adds an encoder and decoder implementation.
The flags are added in this CL so that they can be used by trybots/waterfall bots in GN without "Build argument had no effect" errors. Equivalent GYP changes are also added.

BUG=468365

Review URL: https://codereview.webrtc.org/1575913003

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